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Beyond Pronatalism

Finding fulfillment, with or without kids

To have or not have kids is one of the biggest decisions we make in our lives, and yet how many of us know that we even have a choice about how we define and create our families? Beyond Pronatalism host Nandita Bajaj interviews people from diverse backgrounds who are courageously and creatively navigating pronatalism - the powerful pressures to have children - whether from family, friends, or the culture at large. Through intimate conversations, they discuss how they are forging unconventional pathways to fulfillment, including redefining what family means to them - whether that means being childfree or childless, having biological children, adopting or fostering children or animals, or creating close-knit communities of friends and loved ones.

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Nathan | Being Childfree: The Personal is Political
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Nathan | Being Childfree: The Personal is Political

Nathan knew from a young age that he never wanted children, a resolve that only got stronger as he woke up to pronatalism in college. Now in his late 30s and in a committed childfree relationship, Nathan values the freedom that being childfree allows him — from reflecting in solitude and going on long bike rides with his partner, to enriching his political awareness and writing about social justice and animal rights. 

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Elisa | Living with Ecological Grief
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Elisa | Living with Ecological Grief

Raised in Greece by progressive, highly educated parents, Elisa felt little pressure to become a mother and ultimately chose a childfree life shaped by concerns for her own mental health and the future of life on Earth. We explore her work on ecological grief and why society often overlooks grief related to environmental loss and the death of companion animals. Dedicated to the protection of animals and the more-than-human world, Elisa finds deep satisfaction in the freedoms that her nomadic, minimalist, childfree lifestyle offers her. 

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Lisa | A Childfree Comedian Walks into a Bar
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Lisa | A Childfree Comedian Walks into a Bar

Growing up on military bases in a traditional family with traditional expectations, comedian and author Lisa Rimmert always assumed she would have children. But the desire to become a mother never came. After weighing the choice with her husband, they realized that simply “not wanting children” was reason enough, and they found great clarity and freedom in the decision. Now in her early 40s, childfree, vegan, and living with their beloved rescue dog and cat, Lisa is able to pour her energy and love of humor into her work as a stand-up comedian.

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Sneha | Standing up to Patriarchy
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Sneha | Standing up to Patriarchy

Raised in a conservative Indian family, Sneha knew from an early age that they didn't want to have a biological child. As a teen they discovered her queer identity, and in their twenties Sneha made the difficult but liberating decision to leave their parents’ house and hometown. Sneha has rejected the patriarchal expectations of procreation and marriage and embraced their own path - filled with strong friendships, family, and companion animals.

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Elena | Reimagining Family After Cancer
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Elena | Reimagining Family After Cancer

At age 27 Elena is diagnosed with an advanced cancerous brain tumor. As she confronts this life-changing and grief-filled reality, she also wrestles with the question of whether to bring a child into the world - balancing her love for children and the future she once imagined against her understanding of ecological overshoot, pronatalist pressures, and the profound uncertainties of life itself.

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Luke and Stefanie | The Simple Joys of a Childfree Life
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Luke and Stefanie | The Simple Joys of a Childfree Life

Luke and Stefanie reflect on how, free from strong family or religious pressure and true to their own desires, they were able to make an early, mutual decision to live childfree. They reflect on the enormous emotional weight they've seen parents carry and express a profound relief and gratitude that they can enjoy meaningful, well-lived, childfree lives in kinship with the natural world.

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Olivia | The Fear of Missing Out on Family
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Olivia | The Fear of Missing Out on Family

Olivia and her husband are both fairly certain they don’t want biological children, but they deeply value family and are afraid they’ll miss out. The challenges of the adoption process have thrown them into a state of uncertainty about how to have the family they crave, while staying true to their convictions.

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Tania and Brian | Healing Together with Animals
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Tania and Brian | Healing Together with Animals

Deeply in love with each other and their 38 animals, Tania and Brian share their vastly different upbringing that set them on their childfree paths. Tania and her family moved to the U.S. on asylum from Ukraine post-Chernobyl. Brian grew up in a Latino/Native American family in Texas, U.S. with severely limited resources. Their love for animals brought them together.

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Episodes are released every other Tuesday and available on all podcast platforms.

Producer and Host: Nandita Bajaj

Production Team: Josh Wild, Alan Ware

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